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We are speechless. We have no words. Completely blown away. But before I get to the reasons why, I’d like to start by saying that we are thankful that James was healthy enough to have a normal Christmas. You see, last Christmas James was just getting over an illness so we decided to stay home. We normally spend Christmas eve at my mom’s and Christmas day at Stacy’s parent’s house. Fortunately, we felt James was stable enough this year to go to my mom’s on Christmas Eve. He got a little Elmo stuffed animal, a hooded towel for bath time, and some clothes.

 

James sits in a blue‑and‑orange baby seat with a striped border, wearing glasses and a white shirt with colorful polka dots. He holds a bright red Elmo plush toy against his chest. The wooden floor and a piece of white furniture in the background create a simple indoor setting around this quiet moment with James.
James and Elmo

 

Stacy sits near a fireplace holding a soft brown monkey hooded towel, smiling warmly. Wrapped gifts, a Santa decoration, and a toy xylophone rest on the floor, creating a festive holiday scene. Stacy wears a black shirt and red patterned socks, with the cozy room and Christmas details forming a cheerful backdrop.
Hooded towel for James

 

Christmas Day James was still doing good so we were able to go to Stacy’s folk’s house. James got more clothes, and a big monkey stuffed animal, because that is his baby theme, and because James is our little monkey.

 

James sits between Papa and Nana in front of a light curtain, wearing glasses and a white shirt with a colorful pattern. Papa, wearing a plaid shirt, leans in close on his right, while Nana, dressed in red, gently touches James’ face. Their closeness and soft expressions create a quiet moment of care and affection around him.
James with Nana and Papa

 

Jeff, wearing a green plaid shirt, sits on a couch holding a large brown monkey plush toy close to James. James, wearing glasses, looks toward the Jeff while leaning against him. Jeff smiles warmly, his hand with a ring resting near the toy. A textured wall and a framed picture form the background, creating a gentle moment of connection around James.
Big monkey

 

Okay, so now I can get to the part where we completely blown away. Somebody (we don’t know who) had contacted a local non-profit organization called Normal Moments who then contacted us. They explained who they were, what they do, and asked if we would be interested in them collecting gifts for James. Sure. Money is tight with only one of us working and James deserved to have a good Christmas. We gave them a list of things we thought James might like. We even asked for an iPad, not thinking they would get us one.

A couple of days ago I met someone from Normal Moments near where I work to pick up the gifts they had gotten for James. Holy crap there were a lot of gifts! Now, I had known prior to picking up the gifts that Normal Moments had people donate the items that we had asked for. I asked the woman who was there to drop off the gifts if we could get a list of donors so that we could send them each a thank you card, but she said that their donors prefer to remain anonymous. If you are reading this and you donated any of the gifts, or played any part in this, THANK YOU! We don’t know what else to say. Thank you.

Okay, so here is James surrounded by the gifts I brought home (before we opened them):

 

James sits in a colorful baby seat in front of a small decorated Christmas tree and a brick fireplace. Three stockings hang above the mantel labeled Dad, James, and Mom. Wrapped presents in bright holiday colors surround him, along with a white stuffed bear with a red ribbon. The red couch and festive decorations create a cheerful Christmas scene with James at the center.
James surrounded by gifts from Normal Moments

 

And here he is surrounded by the gifts after we opened all of them:

 

James lies on a blanket surrounded by an array of toys and gifts arranged neatly around him. The items include plush animals, colorful musical toys, boxed sets from children’s brands, a red Elmo doll, a small book, and a red baby outfit. The scene feels festive and full, creating a moment of abundance with James resting at the center.
Donated gifts from Normal Moments

 

He got clothes, and stuffed animals, and toys, and musical instruments. Somebody even bought him the iPad we asked for. We know some of you have given us money to put towards an iPad so we will be contacting you to see if you want us to return your money or if you want us to keep it in James’ medical fund to put toward something else he may need in the future.

Like I said earlier, we are completely blown away. Thank you Normal Moments, and anyone who played a part in giving James an awesome Christmas. Someday we hope to return the favor. If you are in the Chicagoland area and would like to find out more about Normal Moments, or become a donor yourself, here is a link to their website:

http://www.normalmoments.org/

Although you can view it on their website, I also want to include a YouTube video about how Normal Moments got started: