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My engine after the mechanic took it apart to find the problem

A Large Dose of Reality

Remember about a month ago when I asked if we should buy James a car? Even though James will never be able to drive, I thought it would be cool to buy an early ‘90s Mustang that the two of us could work on together and somehow modify so that…

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Should We Buy James a Car?

My mind often wanders in various directions. There is no GPS for my brain. It doesn’t go from point A to point B. Instead, it goes from point A, totally bypasses the original destination, pausing for a second at point C, somehow reroutes to point L, which isn’t even on…

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Life is Short

These past couple of months have reminded me just how short life can be. My cousin passed away in June a couple of weeks shy of his 47th birthday. Then in early July a good friend told me that he was diagnosed with late-stage bladder cancer and the doctors were…

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Don’t Piss Off This Special Needs Parent

Please excuse me while I vent. Stacy and I are part of a local Facebook group where people can share things that are going on in our community, ask for recommendations, ask for advice, etc. One of the members in the group posted a simple reminder:     Then there…

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Happy Anniversary My Love

On a July night in 1998, I had just gotten home from hanging out with a friend and decided to plug the telephone line into our laptop, dial into AOL and check my mail before heading off to bed. Those of you who are of a certain age know the…

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A Loss That Hit Close to Home

It’s been a rather emotional week for us. If you’ve followed James’ story for any length of time, you know we’ve had our ups and downs. The past six and a half years have not been easy on Stacy and me, but we’ve learned to just take one day at…

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Life Can Be Shorter Than You Think and a Health Update

We did not choose to become parents of a special needs child, the choice was made for us. And as parents of a special needs child, we have been introduced to and become friends with other families with special needs children...some local, others across the country. One of those families…

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